Eventually, life's experiences extinguish our spark and replace it with a trail of smoke - a shadow of the wonder we once possessed. This isn't to say that adults lack the capacity to dream, but more often than not, their goals are laced with a fear that discourages persistence, suppressing the passion needed to ignite them. Our longing to inspire, advance, and instill change in society is outweighed by our mindset of realism and the assumption that as one of seven billion, our impact on the world is too minuscule to make it worth trying at all.
This raises a question: Are there some things that simply can't be changed? After reading "Just Walk On By" in class this past week, it obvious how author Brent Staples would respond to such inquiry. In describing the precautions he takes when walking at night to appear less threatening, his tone is one of defeat. He regrets that societal views have caused him to impose fear upon pedestrians in his wake. He regrets that being mistaken for a criminal is an "unpleasantry" he is frequently subjected to. But he accepts these attitudes. As Staples goes on to explain the danger he faces in being seen as an intimidating presence, I understand why he feels he must change himself rather than the perceptions of others. But how do we know that we're really too small to have an impact?
Hey Katie! I really enjoyed reading your post because I've actually been stuck on the same question. The monotony of high school really makes me feel as if I can't do anything meaningful enough to change society or impact peoples' lives in any way. I think it's a good thing to keep in mind-the idea that we can change the world-but like you mentioned, reality must set in. Realistically, we're just specks of dust in the larger scheme of life. Personally, I'm going to try and change my life as well as others, but I'll accept it if nothing really significant happens. Great post!
ReplyDeleteI loved this! I think you're absolutely right. I think that more and more people don't pursue their dreams because they believe they are unrealistic and unachievable. I think that as long as you work hard enough you'll get closer and closer to achieving them.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your introduction! It was such a cool way to describe the stages we go through in life. I often wonder whether being a realist is good because it protects you from failure, or whether its bad because while it protects you from failure there is a chance you could've achieved your goals and made a difference.
ReplyDeleteNice hook!! As kids, we definitely feel invincible at times and quickly learn that we are not and adapt accordingly, sometimes for the better, and sometimes for the worse.
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